KETAHUILAH SAYANG... MAMA SAYANG WAIS!

KETAHUILAH SAYANG... MAMA SAYANG WAIS!

GAMBAR NI mama ambil masa abah potong kuku adelia. Mama sedih tengok Wais. Apa yg Wais fikir? ada perasaan Wais? Ketahuilah sayang... mama tetap sayang Wais.. 

BESARNYA PENGORBANAN WAIS SEBAGAI ABANG...

Wais adalah seseorang yang sangat cepat berpeluh dan tidak tahan panas. Sebap tu mama srh abah pasang aircond dibilik. Supaya wais selesa tidur. Mama bahagia sgt tgk wais tidur dengan sangat selesa dan lena.. Fitrah seorang ibu yang sentiasa berusaha semampu yang boleh demi keselesaan anaknya.

Sejak Adelia ada semuanya berubah.. Abah dan Wais terpaksa tidur dibawah manakala mama dan adelia tidur dikatil. Hancurnya hati mama tengok wais tidur dibawah sedangkan sebelum ni wais tidur dlm pelukan mama... Bila adelia bangun tengah malam menyusu kadang2 mengalir jgk airmata mama... Wais.. mama harap wais bersabar dan perlahan-lahan akan biasa dengan perubahan ini. Sebap tu mama bergilir-gilir tidur dengan wais supaya wais tidak merasa terpinggir. Mama sayang wais... 

Masa wais tidur kadang2 mama tgk habis basah rambut wais dgn peluh. Mama minta maaf.. bukan mama snegaja tidak on aircond dan perlahankan kipas... Mama terpaksa buat begitu sebap adelia baru lagi dan tidak tahan sejuk.

Bila Wais suka campak benda pada adelia mungkin mama ter-tengking Wais. Bukan bererti mama tidak sayang Wais.. mama cuma terkejut sgt bila Wais agresif begitu. Mama faham semua ni terlalu drastik dan Wais terlalu kecil untuk memahami kehadiran Adelia dalam keluarga kita sebagai adik. 

Selalunya kalau kita jalan.. Wais akan duduk depan dgn mama... sekarang Wais terpaksa duduk sendiri... tidur sendiri.. Mama sedih tgk wais... mama rindu pangku wais dlm kereta.. Mama minta maaf nak.. ini semua terlalu awal bagi wais... tapi mama yakin bila adelia besar nanti wais akan menyukainya.. dan adelia akan jadi kawan baik wais dirumah... mama sayang anak-anak mama...

 Kadang-kadang mama pening dgn kelakuan wais kebelakangan ni... semua barang wais yang wais tidak suka akan menjadi barang yang paling wais suka.. BabyCoat tu mmg wais tidak pernah guna pun.. kalau mama cuba tidurkan wais disitu mesti wais menangis.. sampai wais besar mcm ni.. tidak pernah wais sukakan babyCoat tu.. sekarang... kalau mama letak adelia disitu.. wais pun mau jgk tidur disitu... mama tau.. Wais anggap babuCoat tu kepunyaan wais dan tiada siapa boleh guna.

Wais... maafkan mama... mama janji kita akan hadapi keadaan ini bersama... MAMA SAYANG WAIS!

ANAK KU MEMBESAR SIHAT & KUAT

ANAK KU MEMBESAR SIHAT & KUAT

A Year of Parenting

A YEAR OF PARENTING

HENTIKAN MENENGKING ANAK-ANAK

HENTIKAN MENENGKING ANAK-ANAK

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Let's face it: Young children can be as exasperating as they are adorable. And parents are only human. When a 1-year-old upends the dog dish for the third time in one day despite your pleas, it's easy to become irritated and yell. But raising your voice is a losing battle; it doesn't discourage frustrating behavior and ultimately gets everyone more upset than they need to be. And then, of course, there's the guilt -- and who needs more of that?

That's why we're offering up 10 tips to help break us all of this very bad habit. Try them out. Then let us know how they worked by logging on toamericanbaby.com/parentingchallenge. Hopefully all of us will end up speaking a little more softly and feeling a lot less stressed.

1. Stack the odds. Does it drive you crazy that your toddler likes to dump every foodstuff known to man on the floor? Chances are, if he can't reach the cereal and rice boxes, he can't pour them out. Basic babyproofing is a real sanity saver; the more intact your sanity, the less you'll yell.

2. Tune in to yourself. Make note of when you're most likely to lose it and troubleshoot accordingly. Is it first thing in the morning before you've had your coffee? Then get your husband to play with your child while you savor that first cup of the day. Or buy a coffeemaker with a timer that starts brewing before you wake up.

3. Lower your expectations. If you find yourself yelling at your kids all the time, you may simply be expecting too much of them. There's only so long a baby can sit crammed into a car seat or a toddler can walk in a mall. Acquaint yourself with what's developmentally appropriate and then tweak your actions; one hour-long trip to the supermarket rather than hours of errands will reduce whining, and by association, yelling.

4. Just whisper. It sounds weird, we know. But if your child has to strain to hear you, he's less likely to tune you out. And it's nearly impossible to sound angry (and scary) when you're speaking softly.

5. Be strategic. Find ways to accomplish stressful tasks without your children in tow. If all of you lose it in the grocery store, shop for groceries online after they're in bed -- or even head out to the store after nine, when it's empty and you can shop quickly and efficiently.

6. Adopt a mantra. Find a word or phrase to distract yourself from yelling and remind you that your child isn't trying to drive you nuts -- he's just a little kid after all. "He's only 1, he's only 1," is one example. Repeat it to yourself several times when you feel like you're about to explode.

7. Try the big squeeze. Squeezable stress toys, such as balls and dolls, are designed to keep executives from blowing their stacks. There's no reason why they can't work for moms, too!

8. Get physical. For some, yelling offers a form of physical release. Jogging in place or doing a jumping jack or two can distract you and give you the outlet you need when you feel like yelling. You probably won't want to do this in public, of course, but at home anything goes. Who knows? You may lose a few pounds!

9. Ask for help. Taking care of young children can be exhausting to say the least. And yelling is a definite sign of stress and fatigue, which means you need (and deserve) a break! Have your husband or a trusted babysitter step in for half a day so you can get some much-needed time to rejuvenate.

10. Beat it. If you know you're going to lose it and you're on your very last nerve, put your baby or toddler in a safe spot, such as his playpen or crib, and walk away for a few minutes. Tense and release your muscles, or count to 10 to help calm yourself down before you go back to baby.

NOTA: aku ingin sekali untuk menterjemahkah kedalam bahasa melayu. nantilah... 

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ANAK SELALU TERKEJUT?? TIARAPKAN DIA...

KESIAN WAIZ SUSAH SGT LENA

Dua hari dh... anak mama susah sgt tidur lena.. lena kejap tekejut. mata melilau mcm byk sgt benda dok kacau. kalau mama bedung lagi kesian.. wais terkejut sampai terangkat kepala. Mama dapat bayangkan betapa ngerinya objek yg waiz nampak. Kesian anak mama.... tidur la... mama buai wais nangis juga.. mama angkat dan peluk erat2. berenti kejap... letak dlm buaian nangis lagi. mama mmg marah sangat pada benda yang kacau waiz mama. tanpa sengaja mama mengomel la sesorang. "TOLONG LA MAIN JAUH2 JGN GANGGU ANAK AKU. DIA NAK TDO!"

mama mcm biasa la kalau wais selalu terkejut yang luar biasa. lps tu mata melilau mmg mama cpt2 la pasang surah2 menghalau jin dan syaitan.. dpt la waiz mama lena kejap... mama tak smpt mandi. nak kemas rumah apatah lagi... mama tak sampai hati tinggalkan waiz sendiri masa wais xtenang mcm ni.. mama call abah minta dia pulang tgk2 waiz kejap. blh la mama pegi mandi dulu... mujur la tinggal di quarters. kalau jauh mmg sampai petang la mama xmandi... tp xapa.. yang penting mama ada disamping waiz.

abah mcm biasa la sedaya upaya pujuk mama... "mungkin waiz tak sedap badan la tu... nk belajar sesuatu la tu.

mama tau waiz selalu ketakutan. mungkin rumah ni tidak selamat bagi dia... nnt la kalau ada rezeki kita pindah rumah yang lebih selamat.

menjelang jam 2.30pm baru la anak mama ni lena tidur.. tu pun tpaksa mama tiarap kan waiz. mama percaya posisi tidur yang begini mmg tidak selamat. tapi mama hanya mahu pastikan anak mama selesa tidur. abah pesan kalau waiz tidur tiarap xpyh buat apa2 kerja... duduk diam2 dpn buaian waiz. tgk2 hidung dia...

mama memang selalu tiarapkan waiz sejak balik dari hospital lagi. mmg la mengerikan baca artikel diblog2 lain... tp mama yakin... waiz akan selamat selagi tidur dibawah lindungan Allah SWT dan dibawah jagaan mama.

Waiz tidur tiarap.. tidak terkejut, Tidur lena dan tiada masalah kembung perut

mama tidak menafikan tidur meniarap ni bahaya kepada bayi. BAYI LAIN LA... BUKAN BAYI MAMA.